My daughter Jessica will be turning twelve in the fall, and I’m looking forward to the opportunities it will give her. The thing that I’m concerned the most about is that she has a disability. She has seizures, and because of oxygen deprivation when she was younger after one she has suffered brain damage. She also has learning disabilities, and communication problems. She’s an absolutely lovely child though. She’s kind, caring, and about as compassionate as they come. If any of her siblings are hurting, or just need someone although she can’t really hold up her end of the conversation she’s an astute listener. She’s also very affection (she loves to give hugs). My concern is that the other girls aren’t going to be accepting of her because of her disabilities. What advice would you give to a very nervous Mommy, as her daughter is about to enter Young Women for the first time?
Since I don’t know your daughter, I’m not sure if my advice is of value or not, but I have always found that while young people can be cruel, they can also be very loving and accepting. One thing that makes a difference is communication. With the guidance of the spirit it may be wise to make an effort to help the young women understand the challenges your daughter faces and that there is a reason she has some difficulties. Her leaders should help the young women see and recognize the strengths and abilities she brings into the group. When they can recognize her loving spirit as a blessing from God, they will likely respond with love.